Six Years and Two Divorces

by otherwill in Catch All posted Wednesday, December 21st, 2005 (747 words)

Well.

It has been several weeks packing, organizing the move, moving, cleaning out the old apartment, getting the basics set up here, and … getting an Internet connection.  I’m whipped.

For a move of less than six miles, this took a lot out of me.

But the distance seems a great deal more than six miles.  I have moved from a half-hour commute, hours spent running into town (for meetings, for the movies, for the kids, … ), no-yard, what passes for moderately urban here in Vermont to the a place where I can’t see my neighbors lights at night, in one hundred and eight five acres of protected land. Within ten minutes of my office in downtown Burlington.

And, when I saw this house, walked up the broad wood stairs to the typical hundred year old  second floor full of knee-walls, sloping ceilings, there was this room with a window facing the pines and the fields, in a dormer, just the right size for my desk.  White plaster walls, slightly beat up, flat three inch pine molding, wood floor.  Room enough for my books and a small couch. 

A writers room, the New England Version of the archetypal Paris starving-artist garret.

I knew this place was a home I had been looking for for a long long time.  It only took me seven years and two divorces to get here.

I remember the end of the first marriage, trying to convert a four by ten porch into a study, winding up sleeping down there at the end, amid the sheetrock and half finished wiring, the phrase "Never underestimate the effects of the physical space."

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